When we borrow something from others we think we need something
which we don't own ourselves.
However, this makes us dependent from the person who lends us something.
It is very different with love and recognition.
We don't need love and recognition by asking others.
We can have it in abundance ourselves
- however, we have to consider ourselves lovable.
To feel loved it is enough when we think about ourselves fondly
and treat us lovingly.
Because what we send out comes back to us.