We live in a world where nothing is as it should be.
But it is the only world one we have. Since people like us have made them the way they are, we are the only ones who can change them. But we would have to change ourselves. But how?
As long as we persuade ourselves that everything is safe and on the right path, we have no chance to look for another, better way. But even if we tolerate our fear, we will hardly find such a path. As long as we continue to look on everything from a too close, or from a too far away angle. We remain prisoners of our chosen perspective.
But maybe you will find in your life a suitable hill from which, with an optimal mix of distance and closeness, things can be seen objectively to find a suitable new way in your life.